Just when I thought I would have to come up with creative ideas, Simcha Whitehill comes up with all the right reasons for CNN Living
Here are a few excerpts from the article 10 reasons why dating an older man is awesome:
âYes, my new man was older than me, much older than me. But I wasnât some gold digger trying to claw at his cash account, or even a woman with daddy issues. I just thought he was the hottest, funniest man Iâd ever met.
He was more exciting to be with than any of the 20-something guys I knew. I was smitten with his wit and the way he filled out a pair of pants. Really, are there better reasons to date someone?
Should I seriously have let 15 years come between me and happiness, just so I could avoid judgment from girls like Sue? I really should have answered her question with the long list of truly great things about dating an older man.
He knows cool stuff you never heard of: Generation gaps can be a good thing culture-wise. He can introduce you to music and movies that are totally awesome classics.
Heâs super supportive: Heâs got a career and is secure in his work life, so heâs totally supportive of your ambitions. And probs full of good advice! Not to mention the quarter-life crisis is kinda like the mid-life one.
Someone has already âfixed him upâ: That relationship didnât work out. And now you can reap the benefits of nice shoes and hand towels in the bathroom.
He doesnât stay out late: He might be a ladiesâ man, but after a certain age, heâs not out on the prowl every night in da club lookinâ for a fresh piece. He just wants to hang with you.
He knows himself: Nobodyâs perfect, and by now, he understands his main foibles. So, he can even communicate them to you to prevent friction.
He doesnât want to be alone: Heâs already hit that point when men realize they donât want to be all by themselves. Even if they intend to stay confirmed bachelors, they still want company.
No more going Dutch: There wonât be that awkward pause when the check comes; heâll always take it because a man of his years makes more money. You wonât even feel the slightest bit guilty.
He is going to be this rad forever: Some peeps just lose their lust for life at a certain age, but your dude has still got it! He can not only keep up with your young butt, but he piques your interest. You know for sure that time doesnât slow him down. Heâs always willing to try new things. Heâs not going to turn into some couch potato all of a sudden. In another 20 years, heâll still be l-i-v-i-nâ.â
Read the full article at:
http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/12/31/tf.dating.older.man.awesome/index.html